080- More Than Allowance: Tantra, Power & Conscious Sugar Dating

Host Samantha, guest Kristen Birdwell, and co host Anthony dive into a topic that’s juicy, taboo, and full of potential for expansion—so, basically, just another day on this podcast. Today, it's sugar dating. 

Our guest today is the incredible Kristen Birdwell:author, healer, Tantrika, and all-around love warrior. This conversation is going to take us on a ride. We’re talking about everything from sacred sexuality and Tantra to the sugar realm, an  often misunderstood world but one Kristen has navigated from a place of empowerment, evolution, and deep self-awareness.

Kristen shares how her journey started. Seeking something outside of herself in her early 20s, stepping into sugar relationships without much intention, to later reclaiming that experience as an empowered choice. Her book, Sex, Drugs & Soul, is just as captivating as its title suggests, and she gives us a glimpse into the stories, lessons, and transformation that came with it.

Kristen didn’t just stumble into these experiences. She transmuted them. She took the wounds, the conditioning, and even the moments of toxicity and turned them into wisdom. And through this journey, she found Tantra—a path that finally allowed her to integrate her sexuality and spirituality instead of feeling like they had to exist in separate worlds. You know Samantha is all about that.

And of course, we get into the really fun stuff like rituals, pleasure practices, and how making everything in life sacred changes the game. Kristen shares how she started bringing intention into her world: cutting energetic cords with an underwear purge (yes, really), embracing sound and movement as healing tools, or taking her relationship with pleasure to a whole new level.

This is a conversation about owning your desires, breaking out of shame, and finding your way back to your most liberated self. If you’ve ever felt like your spirituality and your sexuality were at odds, or if you’re just wildly curious about a world that often exists in whispers and judgment, I need  you to take a listen and let me know your thoughts!

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